1-855-452-0707The cycle of narcissistic abuse is characterized by ups and downs. When times are good, they may seem too good to be true. Unfortunately, the bad times take a toll. By the time you recognize the toxic nature of this roller-coaster relationship, there may be significant damage to your sense of self. You may feel broken, hopeless, and lost.
Know this: you aren’t alone. PIVOT is on your side. We can help you build back your trust in yourself and your sense of hope. Let us help you learn how to break the cycle of narcissistic abuse. Our relationship coaches are uniquely positioned to help you break this toxic pattern once and for all. If you have had enough emotional abuse from a relationship with a narcissistic partner and are ready to stand up for yourself, let us help you take your life back.
How to Break the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse and Get a Fresh Start
To break the cycle of narcissistic abuse once and for all, the change has to come from you. Helping you to accomplish this transformation is where PIVOT excels. At our intensive retreat for narcissistic abuse, we provide a safe space to support individuals who desire a different path for their life. Through our exemplary process, we will help you to recognize and heal the childhood traumas, insecurities, and pains that weigh you down. As you practice self-care and regain your sense of self, you will learn step-by-step strategies for resolving conflict, improving communication, and holding protective boundaries. When you work through our proven process, you will be ready to approach relationships as a strong, resilient individual who is worthy and capable of secure attachment and healthy, reciprocal relationships.
How to Break the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse for Good |
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Action You Must Take |
How PIVOT Supports You |
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Validate your feelings |
One of the most challenging consequences of narcissistic abuse is the self-doubt that permeates your thinking and decision-making capacity. Likely the result of gaslighting and other manipulative tactics, it undercuts your self-confidence and limits your resolve for change. Your PIVOT coach will help you to trust yourself and believe that change is possible. |
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Gain compassion for yourself |
The emotional abuse of a narcissistic partner can make you feel really bad about yourself. You may have been putting your needs aside to keep the peace and please your partner. The PIVOT Process helps you develop compassion for yourself and prioritize your needs. |
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Recognize manipulation tactics |
Many narcissistic manipulations are difficult to recognize. You may not realize you have fallen prey to them until it is too late. Learning to recognize these manipulative tactics can help you avoid the emotional pain they inflict. |
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Learn to set and hold boundaries |
A lack of boundaries can make you a target of narcissistic abuse. Your PIVOT coach will help you learn to set and hold protective boundaries to guard against future abuse. |
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Articulate your feelings and desires |
Breaking the abuse cycle once and for all means putting yourself first. The PIVOT Process helps you to get in touch with why you have fallen prey in the past and gives you tools to ensure you are not marginalized in the future. You will learn to express yourself and take charge of your life. |
Part of breaking free of narcissistic abuse is understanding the patterns it often takes. Part of the PIVOT process is education on the cycle of narcissistic abuse, so you can identify it early on and avoid falling into the same toxic patterns over and over again.
Understanding the Cycle of Narcissistic Abuse
The cycle of narcissistic abuse is characterized by emotional abuse and manipulation tactics. This abuse doesn’t just happen in romantic relationships – you can experience it with friends, siblings, and even parents.
Narcissists are often drawn to specific vulnerabilities in a partner. Those who have experienced childhood trauma or abuse or had a narcissistic parent may be particularly susceptible. Partners who are lonely, lack confidence, or have low self-esteem may also fall prey to narcissistic abuse. Likewise, people who are ill and need help or suffering from emotional or financial hardships are also especially vulnerable to narcissistic manipulation. That isn’t to say that it is your fault – anyone can fall into a narcissistic dynamic. That’s why it is so important to know the signs.
Understanding the cycle of narcissistic abuse can be a profound moment of enlightenment. It’s like finally seeing the light at the end of a long, dark tunnel. This understanding empowers you to take control of your life and break free from the toxic cycle.
Take Your Life Back With PIVOT
If you are reading this and it feels all too familiar, we can support you. We’ve helped hundreds of people as they break free from toxic relationship dynamics and build healthier, happier connections free of abuse. Let PIVOT show you how to break the cycle of narcissistic abuse. Start living on your terms with us by your side. Reach out or call 1-855-452-0707 to begin the journey.