Relationship Coaching for Couples and Duos

PIVOT’s Relationship Coaching for Couples and Duos

PIVOT provides relationship coaching for couples and non-romantic duos who want to work towards a relationship that results in clarity and connection. Our program is rooted in 15 years of research, providing high-impact solutions for all the stressors that can arise in a two-way relationship. When you work with PIVOT, each couple/duo has their own coach.

PIVOT relationship coaching for couples can help you:

Rediscover the intimacy that brought you together
Come up with an appropriate path forward for your unique situation
Find clarity in your relationship
Set healthy boundaries
Handle conflict
Overcome fidelity issues/threats to a relationship
Get ready for a new level of commitment with premarital retreats

PIVOT coaching for each individual in a romantic partnership can help you:

Gain deeper self-awareness about your patterns, beliefs, and triggers
Improve your emotional resilience
Contribute positively to the relationship
Set healthy boundaries
Reduce dependency on external validation and build inner confidence
Address past relationship wounds that prevent connection
Find fulfillment independently, creating a more balanced dynamic

PIVOT relationship coaching for non-romantic duos can help you repair:

A turbulent relationship with your adult child
A tense relationship with your parents
A challenging business relationship
A struggling relationship with your adult sibling
A strained relationship with an ex or co-parent
A friendship that has gone cold

PIVOT Offers Several Paths To Healing


You Come to Us	We Come to You
Engage in a focused experience together at our retreat center to better understand yourself, your partner, and the dynamics of your relationship. This process will help you understand your pain points and also what is getting in the way of a deeper connection. You will have your own coach to ensure that you each feel supported and gain the necessary tools and path to healing moving forward. This can be customized from one to three days.	Experience our process, which is tailored to address your individual and collective concerns impacting the relationship. This personalized approach brings clarity and provides tools to make the necessary emotional and behavioral changes you are looking for, all in the comfort of your desired location. We provide two coaches—one for each participant for one to three days.

Relationship Coaching Online	Healthy Uncoupling
Our coaches (one for each individual) meet with you online to provide guidance and support for any two people experiencing challenges. We offer a parallel process for both members of the relationship to address their individual and collective needs. We offer six-week and twelve-week packages that are great for providing ongoing support before or after attending our in-person retreats.	This service is for high-conflict relationships headed for breakup/divorce. These relationships also have ongoing, deeply shared responsibilities (children, financial ties, etc.). How the relationship dissolves will deeply impact these shared responsibilities. This specific service allows both members of the relationship to close down the previous relationship in a healthy way and move forward in a new way that honors those long-term commitments.

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Our Approach to Healing

Our relationship retreats offer intensive support for those going through major relationship difficulties or chronic relationship struggles. We believe showing up as your healthiest self in relationships with yourself, family, colleagues, and community is vital to your health and happiness.

Our approach is based on 15 years of clinical research, emphasizing a relational, attachment-oriented, and diversity-affirming process for personal and interpersonal improvement. During the relationship retreat, participants engage in individual and group therapy, psychoeducational learning, and experiential exercises. Guests leave refreshed and with a clear path forward.

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Anyone Can PIVOT Their Relationship

The PIVOT process is a research-based program based on 15 years of clinical data. Over that time, we’ve worked with thousands of couples from diverse backgrounds and experiences to improve their connection with each other. Take a look at this snapshot of our 2023 client data.

2023 Client Data

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Life-Changing Stories From Past Clients

I was going through a divorce when I came to PIVOT… Now I have a great relationship with my ex-wife and together we are able to co-parent from the healthiest versions of ourselves… Without PIVOT, we couldn’t have done that.

‒ Lee from Texas

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Lee from Texas

Melinda from Idaho

Finding Pivot and being mentored by my Pivot coach, London, was life changing for me. Quite frankly it helped me find myself again and because of that my marriage transformed into what I always hoped and knew it could be. The Pivot program equipped me with a plan of action and tangible resources to navigate the ebb and flow of life in a healthy way.

Cindy from California

I think one of the easiest ways for me to say what Pivot means to me is to explain what life was like without Pivot… Feeling hopeless in my primary relationships. Feeling misunderstood and unseen by those around me… Pivot

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Transform Your Relationships With PIVOT

PIVOT offers relationship coaching for individuals, duos, couples, and families as well as business coaching and relationship retreats. Reach out to begin the journey to a healthier, happier life.
You can reach us at 855-452-0707.

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Frequently Asked Questions

1. What does PIVOT offer?

We offer personal coaching with a certified relationship coach specifically matched to your needs. For those who want immediate results, we offer a relationship retreat at the Glass House. The PIVOT Process helps individuals, duos, couples, and families understand their attachment style, create healthier relationships, and start working towards more secure attachments.

2. What are the qualifications of the coaches?

Our advocates are all certified in the PIVOT process. They have diverse backgrounds in therapy and other coaching models.

3. How do we differ from other programs?

We are focused on helping you strengthen your relationships quickly with our tested, proven PIVOT process. What our clients are always impressed with is how much they get from our program and how quickly they feel like they are progressing.

4. What is the format of the coaching sessions?

You typically meet your advocate in person or by phone. Your coach is also available between sessions by text and email — which is a game changer if you are struggling with relational changes. You will receive the curriculum for each session to study and apply to your life. You also have the option of hiring your coach for what we call a Personalized PIVOT: a one or two-day intensive session that you can do in person at The Glass House or from the comfort of your home!

5. How long does the program typically last?

Programs last a minimum of 3 months for the best results. If you are in a challenging situation and want to repair your relationship quickly, we suggest you come to The Glass House for a retreat to get started.

6. How many clients has the PIVOT process impacted?

We have had the privilege to work with thousands of clients. You can read about some of their experiences here.

7. Where are you located?

We are located in Northern California, right outside San Francisco. Our PIVOT coaches work from all over the United States; coaches can meet virtually or in person.

8. What should I expect at your retreat?

Our retreat is conducted at The Glass House, outside of San Francisco. Groups are limited to 6 gender-specific clients, and the program offers yoga, meditation, healthy meals, and personal and group coaching.

We focus on high-impact solutions to everyday relationship challenges. Whether you’re working through losing a relationship or letting go of codependency, we will help you identify and ask for your needs through the help of your personal PIVOT coaching advocate.

Learn more about our retreats here.